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What a year, equal parts good and evil, which is an improvement over 2012 which was pretty much hell.

In 2013, Donkey didn’t get away with being an asshole about what time the kids and I have together, he hasn’t gotten away with closing this blog, and a woman’s life was saved. In 2013, I was Freshly Pressed three times, wrote six guest posts for five great blogs, and, tops on my 2013 list, Deliberate Donkey has become something all together wonderful. And I hope to continue to grow it (while keeping space for myself here too).  Continue reading

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