Tag Archives: child support

Reopened

March 21, 2013 · by · in Court

Three syllables, one hell. The divorce has been reopened. The Flagler Clerk of Court, Court Records webpage sent me into a panic this morning. If I didn’t already have an appointment for tomorrow morning to speak with my lawyer, I would be on the phone right now. I don’t know what “Termination of Child Support […]

Poor Donkey, Donkey is poor

February 4, 2013 · by · in A Day in a Life

I am being left out and I am not happy. We are supposed to be sharing parental decisions, but Donkey keeps making them without me. First he took the kids out of full-time preschool without talking to me, then he put them back in full-time preschool without talking to me ([daughter] and [son] will be […]

Don’t feed the donkey

October 24, 2012 · by · in A Day in a Life

I have to thank Me And Anxiety for the title. I really enjoy when others interject some humor into my misery. Because, really, in our chat (in several chats today) I was being quite miserable. But since this comment I haven’t been able to stop laughing. I was saying blah blah blah…I just have to […]

He will not be paying

October 23, 2012 · by · in Custody

I finally got an answer. I had to pester, of course, but I got my answer. I contacted my lawyer. He can fight this fight, the child support fight, and the tax check fight. And many more fights to come. But I did get the medical insurance documentation. Finally. But I still haven’t heard anything […]

Pathetic pleadings

October 21, 2012 · by · in A Day in a Life

It was the saddest room I have ever sat in and I’ve been to funerals. I left Atlanta at 7:30 am and arrived in Jacksonville at 1:00 pm. I drove the courthouse block a few times until I found a parking spot and made it into the courthouse by 1:20 pm. I went through security, […]

What is he waiting for?

October 14, 2012 · by · in Custody, Final Judgement

There is absolutely nothing in the divorce to compel me to pay Donkey any amount for the medical premiums, co-pays, deductibles, or any other payment. It was simply left out, along with day care costs and many other financial aspects of parenthood. There is absolutely nothing about the way Donkey presented the medical bill that compels me to […]

MoBap_marked

Unnecessary complexity

October 12, 2012 · by · in Custody

Donkey says to me, “But like everything else you get involved in from the IRS to our divorce you manage to somehow introduce additional unnecessary complexity and then get angry and then blame everyone or everything else neglecting the one factor that is a constant throughout all your life events.” 21 January 2012 Medical insurance battles […]

He doesn’t want me there

September 14, 2012 · by · in A Day in a Life

You can’t really blame him; filing for bankruptcy isn’t without its bowed heads. I know what Donkey still owes me doesn’t qualify for dismissal. I know his 401k can’t be used as an asset. My money is safe with him. Donkey had to include the retro child support as a debt. I don’t understand why […]

Critical reading

August 30, 2012 · by · in Custody

In high school I learned to read a story and write a 5-paragraph essay. In college I learned to study a story and compose a response. I clearly remember sitting in my first class with this professor in my second semester at university and echoing the words in my empty skull, “you must read a […]

I knew, you know, but now I know

August 30, 2012 · by · in Custody

It’s always good to keep tabs on your audience. I do this by reading and following my followers, perusing search terms, and watching what posts people seem to like. Apparently now I can add, “requesting an update from my lawyer” to the list. (By the way, Mr. Barnette, I rejected the offer. See this and this for help […]

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