Liars lie. Abusers abuse. These things don’t change.

My daughter was named after me and her great-grandmother (my grandmother). Donkey told her she was named after two queens. Donkey picked her first name. He did pick a queen’s name. He thought that would make her a strong and powerful women.

I can’t imagine why he’d want that since strong and powerful women are his nemesis.

I wanted her middle name after my mother, but when my mother objected and offered my name and my grandmother’s name as an alternative, Donkey did everything possible to convince me to change my choice for our daughter’s middle name. I relented to the pressures of him and my mom and gave my daughter my name. It was the right choice.

This is also why I know he knows the origin of my daughter’s name.

name email

He never bothered to answer. It’s just as well.

He’s also changing how he addresses our son. Nothing says “identity crisis” like adults changing young children’s names.

On another note, Donkey has a new victim. She’s been under his manipulation and control for a year now. Tonight I heard her sound exactly like him–a parrot, she is. I feel sorry for her.



  1. Changing how he addresses your son? What is that crap? Is he getting all the other adults in your son’s life on board with this? So that you’ll be the only one using his real name? Is he ever going to tire of being an ass?

    1. All the other adults only includes donkey’s girlfriend and my son’s teacher. Donkey doesn’t do much with his family, and my family and I call him the name he’s had since birth. But it doesn’t matter. No doubt it’s confusing to a 5-year-old, and his 7-year-old sister.
      He’s an ass. Always had been, always will be. Time has only changed my understanding of just how deeply he’s dedicated to being an ass.

speak loudly, donkeys are sleeping

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: